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Our receipts.

What we promise, in writing, and how to check. If we break one, tell us. We’ll fix it and say so here.

  1. No. 01

    No ads. No data sales.

    We don’t sell your data or share it with advertisers. There are no ads in the app.

    Where to check:

    Privacy, “Who we share with”

  2. No. 02

    Safety is free.

    Report and Block cost nothing, for everyone.

    Where to check:

    “Report” on every ad, match, and chat

  3. No. 03

    No fake people.

    No sample profiles, no staff posing as members, no bots. A person reads every ad before it runs.

    Where to check:

    Every member’s ad carries their number

  4. No. 04

    No fake nudges.

    We only notify you when something real happened: a match, a reply, a proposal, a party you RSVP’d to.

    Where to check:

    Notification settings in YOU

  5. No. 05

    Who decides what.

    Software suggests matches from your quiz. People read every ad, every web reply, and every report. We make every human setup.

    Where to check:

    How it works

  6. No. 06

    Cancel in one step.

    Cancel anytime in your app store. New York members can cancel within 3 business days for a full refund.

    Where to check:

    Dating Service Consumer Bill of Rights

  7. No. 07

    A neighborhood, never a street.

    Other members see your neighborhood. The cross-streets for your welcome kit stay with us.

    Where to check:

    YOU → What others see

  8. No. 08

    Your words stay yours.

    We show your ad only while you want it up, and never use it to train AI.

    Where to check:

    Terms, “Your content”

  9. No. 09

    No crowd votes on you.

    Strangers don’t rate you, nobody is paid to judge a pair, and we never make AI pictures of you.

    Where to check:

    How it works

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