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Three ways to get set up.

Pick one, or all three. They don’t cost each other anything.

By the app

Let the app do the asking around.

Join free and take the quiz. Your first match is on us.

Both people must write before the deadline shown in Match. Once both have written, the conversation stays open.

Free forever: reading and posting personals, replying to ads, and every conversation you’ve started.

The app is not out yet. Join on the web now and we will tell you when it is.

Join on the webPeruse the personal ads first

NYC only, 21+.

By us · when there’s room

Or let us do it personally.

Free. We set up a small number of people at a time.

Save your profile and private photo, then opt in to human setups. If we find a fit, you get a private proposal. A proposal is not guaranteed. Nothing happens unless you both say yes.

Proposals arrive in the app. Until it is out, we text you first.

Create your free setup profile
In the Social Diary · every week

Or meet out in the city.

Events we pick, and parties we throw.

The Social Diary is our pick of where to meet people this week: readings, zine fairs, open studios. Event details are here. RSVP opens with the app.

See the Social DiaryOur next party