I have been on too many dates with men who are not. I have a very good-for-the-world lefty activisty job that I love until 5pm, after which I would rather talk about and do anything else. I want to go outside, drink wine, read books, watch bad tv, be on a boat, or play with my dog. I'm looking for someone who wants to flirt with me, (h/b)ike with me, have little inside jokes, and maybe help me fix some things in my house upstate. I am not, unfortunately, looking for polyamory. Hinge is too vanilla but Feeld is full of men who want to show me their dicks but never their feelings. I'm just a girl looking for a good amount of both.